We can have this scenario:
- somebody else creates a widget-ready message
- message arrives in storage
- (message is not yet in view, so no message.widget)
- new submessage event arrives
We want to just ignore submessage events in that case.
(There's a more complete fix coming for this scenario, where
we at least update message.submessages for the eventuality
that we do render the message later.)
We could get submessage events for messages that weren't
in our message store if somebody played with a widget
that was on an "old" message for somebody else.
